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Can Fuzoku Staff Get Married? What the Women Really Think, and How to Get Your Partner to Understand the Job

Can fuzoku staff get married? What the women really think, and how to get your partner to understand the job — Taniguchi, with 20-plus years in the trade, breaks it down from firsthand experience.

Can Fuzoku Staff Get Married? What the Women Really Think, and How to Get Your Partner to Understand the Job

"Can fuzoku staff get married? What the women really think, and how to get your partner to understand the job" — some people hear that and nod instantly; others have no idea what I'm talking about. (Fuzoku is Japan's licensed adult-entertainment business.)

I'm 42 and still working the floor in this world, so I'll lay it out from a real, on-the-ground point of view.

Why this topic matters

Information about fuzoku is surprisingly scattered and poorly organized. Beginners especially tend to end up not even knowing where to start looking.

Elon
ElonAfter getting circumcision surgery and a pearl implant, I now carry a real "I'm fully prepared" kind of confidence. My range in the room widened, sure, but the psychological ease is on another level. To anyone agonizing over getting "work done": I can say "no regrets."

What this actually means

In a word: the quality of the experience changes depending on whether you know or you don't.

Elon
Elon42, single, living alone. When nearly your whole paycheck disappears into fuzoku, you naturally develop an eye for it. That's not a brag or a regret — I'm just putting it down as a fact.

What I'm writing here is the distilled essence of knowledge I've built up over 20 years.

Final word

Elon
ElonHaving surveyed nightlife worlds all over the globe, my conclusion is that "nightlife rooted in the local culture is the richest." In that sense I think Japan's fuzoku is world-class. That's not blind favoritism — it's a judgment made by comparison.

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